DECLUTTERING YOUR SPACE: LETTING GO OF YOUR PAST SO YOU CAN MOVE ON

When You Waste Time Holding On  “The right man will never come into your life until you let him go!” I remember the exact moment this was said to me. Headed back to Houston, after just having performed at a youth retreat near San Antonio, when I was still actively recording music and performing as … Continue Reading

BUYER’S REMORSE: WHEN YOUR DESIRES BECOME REGRETS BECAUSE YOU LACK THE PATIENCE TO WAIT

When You Run Out Of Patience I have p.a.t.i.e.n.c.e with everyone but MYSELF. Okay, maybe not everyone. But I am known to have an abnormal amount of patience with clients, and if I am honest, a few other u.n.d.e.s.e.r.v.i.n.g @ssholes individuals throughout my life. Having some level of patience in my profession is not a … Continue Reading

REJECTED: WHEN YOU OFFER YOUR BEST BUT IT IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH (B-DAY ed.)

When Rejection Causes You Pain My 3-year-old nephew Kash brought me to tears one day. Only 1 ½ at the time, my mother was keeping him one hot July weekend, during the summer of 2020. Eager to see the adorable green-eyed, chubby face little boy with sandy brown curls, I drove to her house, with … Continue Reading

ABANDONED: WHEN YOU QUESTION YOUR VALUE AFTER SOMEONE LEAVES YOU

When They Love You, Then Leave You “The Orange Show”, an eclectic, and colorful, mini amusement park, tucked away in a working-class neighborhood of Houston’s East side, at its opening in 1979, was predicted by its creator Jeff McKissack, to be a rival tourist attraction that would draw thousands to its door. Built using b.r.o.k.e.n … Continue Reading

TEXAS HOLD ‘EM: HOLD. FOLD.WALK. RUN. CALCULATING THE ARV OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP

When the stakes are high The lyrics from the “The Gambler”, a song written by Don Schlitz in 1976 and made famous by Kenny Rogers in 1978, metaphorically uses the game of poker to explain the importance of making good l.i.f.e choices. The old gambler’s message to the struggling young man sitting beside him on … Continue Reading

EVICTION: VACATING YOUR HEART-SPACE TO MAKE ROOM FOR THE RIGHT OCCUPANT

Choosing the right occupant When it comes to landlord friendly states, Texas, ranks at the top of the list. Unlike most states, a Texas landlord can quickly exercise their rights as the property owner, when their tenant has committed an offense that breaches the terms of their lease agreement. Though the state laws that govern … Continue Reading